“You cannot blame anybody for your choices because as you continue to grow up you'll know what is right and wrong. If you take no responsibility you are showing that you are still a child in an adult’s body. Never ever demand respect because you won’t get it if you still have that child inside that adult. The most important thing of all is to become the person that is waiting to be shown and to be able to fulfill your purpose on this earth because everyone has a purpose.

You have the power to make a difference if you choose to. You do this by taking back your power, being in control, learning how to laugh, to be happy, and to be joyful. It's not impossible, it's there, it's up to you to make it happen. No one can make those things happen for you, you have to make it happen for yourself. Don't expect someone to give it to you. We must learn to be free and that's what we are achieving to become free and independent. We have to take responsibility for ourselves when we screw up.

We can’t continue to blame everyone and everything for our own actions and decisions, everything has a cause and effect. I leave you with this, nothing is easy. We can’t continue feeling sorry for ourselves and keep repeating the same mistakes. People get tired of hearing the same story over and over. But when people listen to your story they also want to hear the solution and the ending of it. Hopefully, it will be a positive ending. People get tired of being used. Before you know it you’ll find yourself alone and that will be sad and lonely. We need someone to care and to love. We need to feel important and special but you must give it to yourself first before someone can give it to you.

You have every right to feel anger, frustration, betrayal, abandonment, pain, and hate but don’t destroy your purpose in this life because of these words and what they represent. Allow yourself to be happy, to learn how to be happy, to learn how to solve your problems, and to learn how to become a better human being within yourself. Don't fall for the negativity.” -Spirit

To be continued…