Imperfection

We are not perfect human beings but do we know what that really means? Can we really trust ourselves as human beings when we show that we have no control? I think that question might apply to those people who have no control but does that make them bad people? Of course not. Control applies to so many situations and circumstances, for example, how do we know when we're going to lose it? Situations may occur in which you will not know how you’re going to react. This applies to everyone; no one knows for sure what they would do until that moment comes.

 

I hear people say, ‘we are perfect,’ when in reality we are not and that makes us imperfect. Honestly, I am glad we are not perfect; It gives us a chance to grow and learn our lessons. It allows us to see things for what they are. We need to see the change within ourselves. Everybody blames someone for their imperfections; they blame their parents, their relationship, the Higher Power, etc.

 

In reality you need to blame yourselves and stop using the excuse that you can’t be in control of your lives because of your own imperfection. You may think that the Higher Power is perfect but he is not because he supposedly made us into his image. If that is the case then you need to take time to think. There is nothing wrong with the Higher Power being imperfect; it makes me grateful to know this. 

 

Our parents are not prefect either, though we think they are when we are children, but we later realize that they are not. People in relationships tend to believe their partner is perfect but that is not true either. We have to make things happen for ourselves and work on our own inadequacies. We look to others to fulfill that imperfection within us. That is why everybody is always looking so that they don’t have to take responsibility.

 

The reason I keep repeating this is because you don’t see it; all of you keep doing the same thing over and over again. How can you do that and make no effort in growing up? Accept responsibility and stop blaming everyone else instead of yourselves. The Higher Power has nothing to do with this; it's just easy to put it on the Higher Power than to take responsibility for ourselves. The Higher Power is not here to take your responsibility away, that is why the Higher Power allowed you to come here so that you can figure things out on your own. 

 

The Higher Power gives you all the tools, knowledge, and wisdom to use in this life. You can use it for your journey as he gives you the power to use it. That’s why we were given a brain, to think and use for either the negative or the positive; that is up to you. Where you choose to take it is your choice. Just as your parents allowed you to figure things out and gave you choices so does the Higher Power.

 

This applies to your relationships, your job, friends, etc. No one is your other half, not even the Higher Power. You, and only you, are your other half. You need to learn how to connect with your other half. It has been longing to connect with you for so long so that you can be whole. When I speak to the Higher Power I say I hope that I am following my journey if not send me a message so that I could get back on track. For everything is up to me, sometimes we lose our way and we need someone to put their hands on us to get us back on track. Whether it's the Higher Power, our parents, friends, relationships, or our children that help us; it's still up to us to do the rest. 

 

That is why we are free and independent; to make those choices that were given to us. We just choose not to see it because it's better to depend on someone else so when they mess up we can blame them. It's the same things as when someone dies, we blame the Higher Power and it's not the Higher Power's fault but we need to blame anyone and anybody to make us feel good. I have to take full responsibility for myself. Do I get pissed off sometimes? Of course, but I do so with myself and no one else.

 

You see, sometimes we put ourselves in situations and then other times situations just happen. But no matter how it goes we should learn from those situations. Many choose not to because they are hard-head or they let their pride and ego get in the way. Some people think they are too smart and no one can tell them anything while others follow the negative because it's easier. 

 

 

You haven’t given yourself a chance to become one with it all. There are so many close minded people in this world that just don't give a hell. There are people who live their lives as if that is their last one and that is the saddest thing I can hear. No one said you need to believe in anything. That is your choice but when you see there is nothing more than this then what was the purpose of you being here in the first place? 

 

If you thought it was to have a great time, boy have you got a lot to learn. Someday you'll get it, maybe not in this lifetime but in the next. Like I said before we don’t get away with anything even though you think you do. Keep thinking like that for surprises will come your way for sure.

 

The one person you need to believe in is yourself and not in a conceited way for I don’t teach that. If you believe in yourself then everything comes into place. Like I said, you can’t believe in anything if you don’t believe in yourself first. You can’t like someone if you don’t like who you are. You can’t love anyone if you don’t love yourself first. That is the only way you know what you are. To have faith comes from you first for you need to have faith within you.

 

That’s why our children are so lost because we are lost. We don’t put our priorities first. We are so involved in control, power, and money that there is nothing to see. For the world blames so many of us and we choose not to wake-up but continue sleeping. Of course that is always and will always be your choice because that’s why we have choices. No one has to agree with what I write. 

 

I share my knowledge and wisdom, as well as, my gifts and as long as I follow my journey I'm doing what I need to do. I am very grateful to be able to fulfill my journey and I am so blessed that I am able to do so as I share with those that choose to learn. For they are not afraid to fulfill their own journey and I think that is awesome. Don’t let anyone take you away your journey either.

 

Nothing is earned easy; our lessons will be hard, even tragic at times. We all need to stay strong within ourselves. Believe that you are powerful and can get through anything that life has to throw at you. Even when you are the one punishing yourself; you can overcome it. Remember imperfection comes within the world, not within us. No, we are not perfect but that is fine. It makes our lessons more interesting. It doesn’t take away from us, on the contrary, we should be grateful.